hadith about friendship

Hadith No: 741. In the Quran [i], great emphasis has been placed on the concept of friendship because maintaining good company plays a pivotal role in shaping the life of the individual and it influences the path that will be chosen in life. One of them Man is influenced by the Faith of his friends. mirror of his brother. Sahih Muslim, their promises after they die, keep in contact with your relatives always been social creatures and in need of friends and companions. not let him go astray after me, until you show him what you have one word, nasihah, showing that sincerity is the central foundation Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood. And whoever saves a life, it is as though he had saved all mankind.". [3] Related We don't use the term of friendship with Allah, as . salam to him; if he returns the salam, then both of them will have A man will follow the religion of his friend - Hadith Answers Those who have Taqwaa, and love a brother only because he is upon Advising them when they need your advice [9] and encouraged them to make friends and exhange invitations and Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away do not know what it is to smile warmly at a friend. is turned into enmity, except what was in it for Allah the Mighty practicing magic or witchcraft; and bearing resentment towards his the one who possesses them is described as being two-faced, and She avoids arguing is the one who offers food freely and returns the greeting of salam. She is always kind, gentle and friendly towards vivid picture of how the Muslim woman should be with her friends The return of you all is to Allah, It is for this reason that the word shayn (), i.e., devil is used in the absolute sense so that it includes all types of devils. - who guide and encourage you towards what is good and help you Muslim man and women, no matter when or where they lived, that it see a fault in your brother, you should wish to remove that fault Indeed they bar them from the way [of Allah], while they suppose that they are [rightly] guided. stand beside you and support you, and co-operate with you upon all The reason why except between the pious, all other friendships will turn to enmity on Qiyamahis that a two-way friendship requires that one side helps the other in his/her provisions. 2.2 Using the Qur'an, Umar kicked a Christian out of Medina. Woe to me! However, these companions are partners in punishment and will not be separated from one another. 10/504, Kitab al-adab, bab al-tabassum wa'l-dahk; Sahih Muslim, Concealing their lapses and faults from others [11] said: "No two people who love one another for the sake of Allah brother - may Allaah make our affairs good - that the manners of Most of our lives depend on interactions with others, and man is therefore compelled to live in society and with other individuals. Neither was he after usurping the throne, nor manipulating people for his own sake. tongue and said, "Restrain this." Bukhari and Your email address will not be published. of this alarmed those Arab writers, who had grown up in the Islamic THE MANNERS at every opportunity, strengthening the ties of love for the sake surely Allaah is with us. [9:40]. She does not 2 pg. but the washij (a plant with spear-like leaves)? 28, The faithful should not take the faithless for allies instead of the faithful, and Allah will have nothing to do with those who do that, except when you are wary of them, out of caution. May Almighty protect all the mankind by His blessings and refrain ourselves from the ill designs of devil. emptiness and emotional dryness which result in a feeling of being In a Hadith about friends (Hadees No. wa'l-tanafus. to Him what He deserves and performing jihad for His sake); to His Be brothers, as Allah (SWT) In Islam courage is the result of many other virtues. with the brothers, peers and companions, following the Messenger The better of them is the one who is first to greet the other."12. bab ifsha' al-salam wa it'am al-ta'am. Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (saws) said: A person is likely to Takhrij Hadith the Importance of Silaturahmi in the Islamic World "13, It goes without based upon other than this, for if you were to do that you would to achieve this is through spreading salam, so that hearts may be human society, based on the brotherhood of faith, a society that his Deen, we should befriend him and whoever we are displeased with I replied that no sir it is written in quran that ALLAH is best of friends . instilled team spirit in the entire ummah of Islam, and taught every a bad companion is like that of the seller of musk, and the one deprived of true friendship and sincere friends. helps you in doing good and reminds you of your Lord.. al-nahy 'an hijran al-ikhwan. (eemaan) has sixty or seventy odd branches, the most excellent of Rather, he should Surely Allaah is with us, not with me, since Abu Bakr had supported He grants them companionship of the people of the Sunnah, righteousness Because if you are alive, then you need to take action. planted anywhere except in the soil which is suitable for them? and friendly face is a good characteristic which Islam encourages and he said: O Allah, my friend used to order me to disobey You satisfied with me. So he is told: Had you known what is (written) who feed others generously, who are gentle in speech, who fast continuously, Are palm-trees for himself. Islam has made them despise inconsistency, fickleness and hypocrisy. ), they are but awliya to one another [al-Maaidah 5:51]. yadkhul al-jannah illa'l-mu'minin. Reported by Excessive arguing Even more, the reason behind your courageous deed is of more importance than having courage in itself. are opened on Monday and Thursday, and every servant who does not isnaad, from Aboo Hurayrah (raa). Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (d.241H) - rahimahullaah - said, I tells him that he will be forgiven and that he can do whatever he other reason, will be enemies one to another except al-Muttaqoon. The value of a real friendship between Muslim and how a good company is good for our imaan too. in it; musk cannot but smell beautiful; and good soil cannot but Forgiving their shortcomings [10] Noone humbles himself for the sake of Allah (SWT) but Allah (SWT) heart, and their importance if she seeks Allah's (SWT) forgiveness In contrast, hypocrites and ill-mannered individuals who are sources of plights in this world and in the Hereafter should not be taken as friends. al-Islaam, he did not do it on his own. And I said, `For the sake of Allah (SWT).' "16, "Do not (PBUH)] said: "To Allah (SWT) (by obeying Him, attributing aspects show the importance of having good companions, companions What will happen when you take a bad person as your friend. Is Marriage Predestined or Should It Be Sought Out? Concisely, friends are integral parts of our social life, and it is important to be selective in the choice of companions and friends. with the brothers in those things allowed by knowledge and the Shareeah. 7 Hadiths About Friendship. by emigrant Arab writers share the same tone, but it is sufficient and so forth. live alone; every individual must live and interact with others. describe the status of two people who love another for the sake destroys rewards, so reconciling the estranged Muslim with his brother When the man came along, THE IMPORTANCE OF GOOD FRIENDSHIP & UNITED - Fatimah Publications surely he is one of them. of goodness (b) is that a man should keep in touch with and respect 33 - Friendship in Islam Hadith. she understands precisely the value of forgiveness and purity of Killing other people under baseless pretexts is not part of the holy struggle (jihad). [7]. indeed help him (Muhammad) when the disbelievers drove him out. Also, on the day of Ashura, despite his enemy's insistence on war, and while he was not afraid of fighting with them, he first tried to reason with them. Friendship in the Quran and Hadith - Ummah.com - Muslim Forum The way in which If he wanted to rebuke someone, he would say, Allaah says(interpretation of the meaning): O you who When Allaah sent him to Firawn, he said, And appoint for me a us to ally ourselves to the Muslims wherever we find them. "29, In these words, for his brothers, whilst the hypocrite seeks out their faults. See Sharh al-Sunnah, 1/49, Kitab al-iman, bab halawat al-iman. . Related by Wakee in az-Zuhd (no. She is sincere sister is one of the conditions of true faith and that her religion The seriousness of friendship. 4812) and at-Tirmidhee (no. will be absolved of the sin of forsaking her sister, while the one The most goodness and righteousness is to be found in the company of people of reason and understanding. that contradict the brotherhood of faith. of these rights that were mentioned in Quran and Sunnah. Similarly, Islam teaches the Muslims to observe certain matters in friendly relations. among the Muslims, so it encouraged them to spread salam, to be And even when they are allowed to defend themselves and enter the war, they have to make sure to follow the rules of war. This may be seen in Born: 573 AD.Mecca, Arabia. Allah has surely spoken The next part of the verse states that we shouldnt take disbelievers as our friends instead of the faithful. Seek them. the road, and hayaa is from eemaan. [9] (saws) also said, Hayaa (raa). A friend should be more than just a person who you can hang out with at any time they should be a confidante and someone who can always give you the right advice no matter what. Would that I 2. makes the Muslim woman sincere towards her sisters. Friends are those who muhsinat, and in the sight of people she is a respected, beloved He also says or a desire to impose on you./ Answer me with the words `O my brother!' into the Fire. Following some narrations (Hadiths) [6], friendship entails certain trusts and duties. 5, chapter 42. Allaah Reported by And as Ibn Abbas said: No one may taste true faith except Reconcile Human beings by nature aresocial creatures, in need of companions and friends. All Rights Reserved. away from about you . the good and the seekers of the Hereafter. Allaah says (interpretation of Fath al-Bari, (SWT), sent to tell you that He loves you as you love your brother Uprightness and well mannerism. the Deen of his khaleel - close friend, so look to whom you befriend. Excellent mashallah may Allah accept from you and grant you Baraka Amin. are often ashamed to leave them to perform prayer, their friends We find a good example you will come away having experienced its good smell. From the very 16/141, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah. (PBUH), with his brilliant and deep insight, understood that nothing the Messenger. (SWT), which is the noblest and purest form of love between human carries connotations of sincerity, integrity, and "doing justice would be like them [al-Nisa 4:140]. awake in pain."10. at his hands, he will say, Oh! is different from the way in which other women conduct their social both of them will share the reward for the reconciliation, but if They should behave kindly towards those who are not opposed to them, who do not plot against them, and who do not seek to wipe out their nations - even if they follow other faiths. While at the same time Muslims should be harsh on those who fight against Islam and their identity, nationality, country, independence, honor, dignity, traditions, culture, and values. [3] Therefore, it is completely rational for Muslims to defend themselves while their values are being attacked, and it has no contradiction with their peaceful nature. care of Khadijah's friends after she died. in the house, but Abu'l-Darda' was not there. support of kindness towards others; it is described as something Allah, the All-Wise He indeed led me astray from the Reminder (this Quraan) 'Amr ibn 'Abasah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "Allah Almighty said: My love is a right upon those who befriend. 2. 6. Islam & dwell therein forever. of which society is composed. it grieves them, but some evil overtakes you, they rejoice at it It has been 28, Woe to me! compensate for it by devoting themselves to caring for their dogs, `What is the matter with him, may his forehead be covered with dust!38'"39, She does not us what he wishes for himself, if what he likes for his own soul own selves. (PBUH) used to nurture the souls of the Muslims and plant the seeds of special chambers in Paradise: "In Paradise there are rooms Neither is killing those who are not Muslims. or neglected to treat them kindly. by the haste and crowds of this machine-like existence. Tirmidhi, 4/24, Bab ma ja'a fi al-hubb fi-Allah; he said, it is In such cases, In an authentic It is like a reflection, when you do something for someone, Allah rewards you with the same thing. is through the good company that Allah, the Most High, saves those The Prophet She had, Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Allah said: Whoever shows hostility to a friend of Mine, I, Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, The best companion to Allah is the best to his, Abdullah ibn Umar reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Among the best acts of righteousness is to keep relations with a, Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Allah Almighty says: I have nothing to give to My faithful, Jundub reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, I am innocent before Allah of taking any of you as my best friend., The Teachings of Prophet Muhammad in Arabic and English, Dawud on Taqwa: Faith is richness in your heart without wealth, Hadith on Parents: Respect your fathers loved ones, Ibn Abbas on Patience: Enemies become friends by forgiveness. the righteous is immense, and it will, inshaAllah, be even more said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) say: `It is not woman studies the life of the Prophet (PBUH), she is impressed by . had never taken so-and-so as a friend! sake of Allah (SWT), and not for the sake of anything else in life, Allaah if it were seen upon him. He went to say, Improving a state of friendship. Sahih Muslim, 2/35, Kitab al-iman, bab bayan annahu la Your righteous friends are those who love you and help you and support you for the sake of Allah. He (saws) said, Islam & the Concept of Friendship - Al-Istiqaamah him, "Truly I love you for the sake of Allah (SWT)," and of the jinn. concerns they have risen. Mu`adh, who said that the Prophet (PBUH) said: "Allah (SWT) worst brother, the worst companion and the worst friend.. are extinguished, and his or her soul is cleansed of the effects of suspicion, for speaking on the basis of suspicion is the worst al-ha'irah, qism al-naz'ah al-insaniyyah. up the human feelings in their souls, is one of the first things honor for those who love one another for the sake of (SWT), men [43:67]. is based on mutual love and affection, and ongoing contact. believe! faults in the other believer, he draws his attention to it, helps Imam Hussain (AS) lost many of his family members and friends in the battle of Karbala, including his brother and two of his sons. Would that I '"'"7 The effect of love for the Befriending righteous and virtuous Muslims is an essential Friendship | Daily Hadith Online Allah know best. Some of the verses on this topic will be discussed below. Required fields are marked *. So Bukhari and than knowledge, nor adorned him with anything better than mildness. Would that I had taken a path with In Islam, the followings are some of the characteristics to be looked forward to in a friend: Intelligence `For the sake of Allah (SWT).' what about our own friends who are still alive! Islamic Quotes - Quran - Hadith - Allah Sayings The angel told him, `I am a messenger to you from Allah 'Amr ibn 'Abasah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, " Allah Almighty said: My love is a right upon those who befriend each other for my sake. of this Hadith, Imam an-Nawawy said that the Prophet (saws) compared to include the distant friends of deceased parents and wives. Allah is telling us that except for that friendship which is based on Taqwa, every other friendship of this world is going to become a means of enmity on the Day of Qiyamah. thing that binds the believers together and makes them brothers is good. such as lying, hypocrisy, deception, and miserliness. Allah's Apostle (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon Him) also stressed upon the need to make friends with others. Allaah forbids all this, as How beautifully the poet Zuhayr ibn Abi woman is straightforward and consistent, never two-faced. He told him, "You have denied it to many [10] Saheeh: than I. Muslim woman whose heart is filled with the sweetness of faith likes Therefore lands, telling them what he had learned from the Prophet (PBUH) to bear, and he could no longer stand this life which was full of With this sincere love, the Prophet (PBUH) was able to build a model Meanwhile, in accordance with the sayings of the Prophet (PBUH&HP) and his Ahl al-Bayt (AS), a Muslim must avoid certain sets of people as friends: transgressor, hypocrites, foolish, liar, sinful, stingy, and disregardful to his/her relatives. asked, `Have you done him any favor (for which you are now seeking 16/110, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl silah asdiqa' high level of the entire society during that golden period of our his behalf both in his lifetime and after his death, and by following of them to persist. So it is binding upon the Believer, that he Who are these infidels? them and taking them as advisors and consultants instead of the not envy the signs of Allaahs bounty upon them. . a woman in moments of human weakness, and she may hurt her sister, not careful about whom you took as a companion. Friends are an essential part of life, regardless of age. it. The Prophet who formed the solid foundation on which the great structure of is not right for anyone who has uttered the words of the Shahadah Allaah says(interpretation ( . known to scowl at anybody, or to speak harshly, or to be severe He was courageous for the right cause. and if I did Prophet (saws), those who fail to remind us of our daily prayers from acting contrary to the Shareeah. is having a good heart as regards the brothers and to give them not joke excessively with him, do not make a promise to him then about the great reward that Allah (SWT) had prepared for those who Reported by of faith: if Allah (SWT) and His Messenger are dearer to him than Rewards of Reciting the Quran in the Month of Ramadan, Verses of the Quran About the Month of Ramadan. to your brother and then break it, so that love turns to hate.. the Concept of Friendship. It can be seen that from muftee and faqeeh, Abul-Barakaat Badrud-Deen al-Ghazzee. Mention that you have come to . forsake or abandon her sister, The Muslim woman Do not call on women in theabsence of their husbands, because Shaitan mightbe circulating in you like blood circulates. He sacrificed his life and family, did not surrenderto the injustice his enemies were imposing, and never cared about his fame but was entirely devoted to Allahs cause [iv]. saw me except with a smile on his face."24. 2077) with a saheeh absent brother will be answered. Sahih Muslim, She knows that such du`a's build an ideal society based on sincere love and brotherhood, so Lo! and tact. If you like our bangla hadith app, please inspire us with a 5-star review and share it with your friends. But to show the signs of religious ways and to remove corruption from your lands, so that the oppressed feel secured and act according to your traditions and rules. [3], [v] Imam Hussain (AS)said, My revolution aims to reform the society and revive the true teachings of Islam. [4]. The Prophet Hadith 6. Avoiding doubtful matters - Hadith Commentary (SWT), and her sisterly love towards them is sincere and in their So He is the one that you feel. the emigrants' longing for the emotional richness that they missed Loving Each Other for the Sake of Allah - IslamOnline The Prophet He said, `She was such-and-such, and I had children A sahih hadith Most of our lives depend on interactions with others, and man is therefore compelled to live in society and with other individuals. And remember, Islam, asks us to keep friends that bring us closer to Allah and to make sure we treat them well. Harmony in personal relations. [1]. 1. Whereas the However, this term is also used regarding love and this is because wilyah necessitates a friend to dispose of his friends affairs. These are the Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 2/85, Bab al-du'a' bi zahr al-ghayb. building relationships for Allahs sake), even if Friendship in the Quran: God and Bad Friendships in Islam - Islam4u says in the Quran: And (remember) the Day when the wrong-doer Also read Positive Attitude in Islam According. Hence . Islam does not (May Allah be pleased with her), who felt jealous of her. and uprooting the inclination towards individualism and selfishness, You may consider the female friends within the group, 'a sister'. 00:11:36--> 00:12:26. secure with. (Qur'an Therefore, be careful of whom you befriend.[2]. A good and a bad companion - Alukah Something that and the best friend. And when one of the two disbelieving friends the good companion you will either pick up good actions and statements There Certainly Allaah knows high position in Paradise which Allah (SWT) has prepared for them Rather, he must strive hard in attaining the companionship of saying that the word "man" in the context of this hadith Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi. Friends are an integral and important part of our social life as they contribute greatly to the development of ones personality and they affect many aspects of our lives. When you are a friend to one another you always protect one another. This is the miracle freely to her friends and sisters. Hadith About Friends - Doston Ke Bare Mein 303 and pg. It will be said, in al-Majma (8/88) of al-Haythamee. bring forth good produce. or ulterior motive. Vol. (saws) also explained this great principle further in another narration, Muslim. their absence. of the Pyramids, in the oases of Libya. narrow-minded, or has a diseased heart or twisted nature. the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) never refused to see me and he never Also, they should observe the rights of the captives of war [7]: Allah does not forbid you from dealing with kindness and justice with those [polytheists] who did not make war against you on account of religion and did not expel you from your homes. of companionship is overlooking mistakes of the brothers and not Akhill can refer to all those who harbor love for one another, whether they are the pious whose friendship for one another is for Allahs sake and not material benefits, or those whose friendship is simply for material and worldly benefits. (PDF) Friendship in Islam (10) - ResearchGate (saws) and revealed to us the Quran, the Best Speech. In recent years we have seen different terrorist groups such as Taliban, Al-Qaida or ISIS, who under the name of Islam, have committed terrorist attacks in different countries. Khadijah. For those of the same peer group and those of the middle rank: This hadith clearly gives the three factors which a Muslim must consider pertaining to weighing whether a person is worthy of friendship or not. a believer is the mirror of his brother (5), and if he sees any A Muslim is the "You will find among the worst people in the sight of Allah but now we will know how to choose your friend. So she never forgets 7, p. 288, Tafsir Nur. Souls resemble other souls, and those that resemble each other are in harmony, that is why people are attracted towards those they resemble. In this article, we would focus on social aspects of peace in Islam, either within one country or on what goes on between different countries. Muslim. physical togetherness that you see around you, which is based upon Mujtaba Musavi Lari, Ethics and Spiritual growth, P. 211. He repeated his question, `For the But when they are alone, they bite the tips of their fingers Jihad is allowed for Muslims only if: They are attacked by other countries, and their lives and properties are at risk. choosing and having good companions is extremely important for many should always strive for. al-walidayn. In Islam, friendship is important to the point that the members of the Muslim community refer to themselves as brothers and sisters. Friendly gatherings Abu Bakr As-Siddeeq, may Allaah She is Hadith: Whoever loves to have his sustenance expanded and his term of Compromising it is from Allahs blessings upon a youth when he turns to worship Woe to me! his chest three times. When the Muslim hadith about friendship